There are more women in dentistry now, but…
Women are 56.6% of all registered dental practitioners in Australia.
That’s just over half! We've arrived, apparently.
Except when you look closer, you’ll see that women hold just 32.9% of specialist positions. That is a 25.8% point gap the moment we try to move into specialist roles. The problem is not getting into dentistry, it’s what happens after the degree.
The numbers don't account for how many times you’re asked if you’re up to the task, if you’re old enough, if you’re ‘strong’ enough. They don’t record how often you’re interrupted, talked over, chipping away at your confidence. Or when you've stopped mid-sentence to recalibrate your tone. Wondering if you've being too direct, too firm, too much. They don't measure the energy spent managing other people's dysregulation.
They most definitely don't account for the perfectionism that has less to do with high standards and more to do with the quiet fear that one mistake will confirm you’re not good enough. That you don't quite belong.
I know these stories because I've heard them from women in this community more times than I can count. The woman who found out her male colleague was earning more commission simply because he asked. She asked and was given a non-committal excuse about overheads. The woman who asserts her needs but spends 5 minutes apologising for it first. The woman who was told not to have children if she wanted to get into a specialty training program.
The woman who sets a boundary with a patient and lies awake replaying it. “Will they leave me a bad review?” The same boundary a male colleague would have set and never thought about again. The woman who completes a case flawlessly and, when complimented, says "Oh, I was lucky." Not "Thank you, I've spent years developing this skill."
Lucky. As if competence were weather.
This is what social conditioning looks like when it sounds like your own voice. It shows up as perfectionism, self-doubt, over-explaining, unnecessary apologising, the reflexive discrediting of credit you genuinely earned. It’s exhausting and it erodes away your vibrancy, your sparkle, the energy that should be going to the people you love, to the life you're building, to yourself.
So we can talk about the biological clock and finances and life circumstances as the reason for less women in dental specialities. But they’re just reasons people won’t argue against, and they seem so valid, we even convince ourselves; when the reality is we’ve been primed to not even try.
Here’s the research people don’t like to dwell on-> men are more overconfident about their abilities than women. And that overconfidence is rewarded. It opens doors and is seen as leadership. It compounds across negotiations, promotions, and career-defining decisions.
Meanwhile, women's accuracy about their own capabilities (what researchers politely call realism), gets misread as hesitation. As not quite ready. As needing more time, more credentials, more proof.
There's a particular kind of boldness men carry into rooms they have no business being in yet. And we've all seen it work. Not because they were more deserving. But because they dared to bet on themselves. The question isn't whether you're qualified enough. You are. Most of the time, you are more than enough. The question is whether you're willing to stop waiting for certainty, for permission from someone else.
I get it, the barriers are real. Assertiveness will occasionally be received as aggression in a system that is uncomfortable with confident women. But it’s also true that you are worthy of being heard. Worthy of stating your needs without apology. Worthy of standing your ground. You are inherently worthy, and you do not need to earn it.
More women in dentistry is a fact. But more women who know their worth, use their voice, and take up the space they deserve… that's the shift that changes what dentistry looks like.
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